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Shopping Sprees Can Cost More Than You Think:
How to Identify a Shoping Addiction
San Diego, October 2007 – While shopping is usually viewed
as a leisure activity by the general public, for one shopper in twenty,
the habit is a process addiction. For these “shopaholics,” trips
to the mall are more than holiday buying and trying on new work clothes.
Rather, their “retail therapy” is an expensive habit that
can spiral into financial and emotional disaster.
“Addiction is a complex behavior,” said Dr. Stephen Grinstead,
licensed marriage and family therapist, “and most addictions fall
in one of two categories: process or substance. Shopping addiction is
a process addiction, similar to gambling, spending, eating, and sexual
addictions that can have life-altering consequences.”
Shopping addictions work like this: When one is feeling lonely, depressed,
or stressed, s/he heads to a number of retailers. After compulsively
buying at a number of stores, often on credit, guilt sets in and the
compulsive shopper tucks away recently-purchased items under the bed
or in the closet with the price tags still attached. This allows the
shopper to return the items when reason later sets in. After repeated
occurrences of this behavior, the shopper begins to see a detrimental
affect on his/her finances, emotional health and relationships, both
personal and professional.
So, how do you know if you have a shopping addiction?
• Most of your shopping or spending occurs when you
are feeling lonely,
angry or sad.
• You feel lost without
credit cards.
•
You’re unable to pay off your credit card at
the end of the month.
• You frequently buy items on credit that you
can’t purchase with
cash.
• You find yourself “justifying” your
purchases more often than not.
• You hide your bills, receipts and purchases
from your loved ones.
• Your loved ones and close friends are concerned
about the amount of time and
money you spend on shopping.
How do you stop shopping sprees?
• Pay
for purchases by cash or debit card.
• Give your credit cards to a financially-responsible
loved one for safekeeping.
• Take a financially-responsible loved one
with you on your shopping trips to
keep you accountable.
• Make a shopping list before you leave the
house and buy only items on
the list.
• Plan alternative activities when you feel
the urge to shop.
Admitting that you are addicted to shopping is the first step to recovery.
Like any addiction, there are treatment options to help identify what
triggers your compulsive behavior. Cognitive-behavioral therapy and twelve-step
programs have been found to be beneficial toward recovery.
A Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) can also help you with a shopping
addiction by exploring alternative ways to deal with life’s everyday
challenges. In addition, MFTs can help you identify and modify addictive behavioral patterns, mitigating the mental health symptoms related to your addiction. To learn more about the services offered by Marriage and Family Therapists or to locate a therapist, visit California’s online mental health resource, www.TherapistFinder.com.
About CAMFT
The California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, with
27 chapters throughout the
state, is an independent professional
organization, representing the interests of licensed marriage
and family therapists. CAMFT provides TherapistFinder.com as a resource
to the public looking
for marriage and family therapists located in California. For more
information about CAMFT, please
call (858) 292-2638 or visit www.camft.org.
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