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Eat, Drink and Don't Feel Ashamed: Helpful Tips
for Addicts
As the holiday season approaches, eating and drinking
are unavoidable temptations for some celebrators. Holidays are often the
most difficult times of year for food and alcohol addicts. The California
Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT) offers advice to
those who find mashed potatoes and eggnog a comfort to the annual anxieties
of family reunions and other social obligations.
Many people succumb to their addictions during the holidays, not because
of the abundance of food
but because of heightened levels
of guilt and awkwardness due to unresolved issues with family and
old
friends. Before conversation decibels climb and shoulders shrug, here
are some tips to prevent you
from prematurely reaching for the leftovers or opening that additional
bottle of wine:
• Eat before a party. Eating food high in protein before a party
can help curb your appetite.
• Maintain therapy during the holidays. Continue with any therapy sessions,
recovery meetings or support systems; keeping up with these important
connections are just as imperative during the holidays as any other time of year.
• Rehearse replies to refuse any addictive substances offered to you.
For example, “Thank you, but not right now,” “I’ve
had my share today,” “I
am allergic to that” and “It causes me to break out” are polite comments that can be used for turning
down food or alcohol.
• Insist that your guests take home the leftovers.
• Plan activities to follow the feast. Play games or go for a walk.
Don’t allow yourself and your guests to sit around and be tempted by leftovers.
• Focus on the reasons for the celebration. Assigning holidays to a meaning
and purpose other than eating and drinking can help you stay clean and sober. Although the holidays can be difficult for food and alcohol addicts,
experts can help you celebrate this
time of year in
a healthy manner. Marriage and Family Therapists (MFTs), give aid
by offering addiction therapy resources to assist addicts in their recovery
during the holidays. For further information or to find a marriage and family therapist, visit www.therapistfinder.com.
About CAMFT
The California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT),
with 27
chapters throughout the state, is an independent
professional organization, representing the interests
of licensed
Marriage and Family Therapists. For more information about CAMFT, please
call
(858) 292-2638 or visit www.camft.org or www.therapistfinder.com.
Media Contact: Tricia Whittemore
Porter Novelli
Phone: (619) 687-7018 or (603) 219-6088
E-mail: tricia.whittemore@porternovelli.com
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